When you are so emotionally involved in a situation, youre too close to look at it objectively and analyze what the problems are and how to solve them. So the emotional side gets the better of you and you then end up making the whole situation even worse. The only way to make sure this doesnt happen is to maintain your dignity at all costs, no matter what. This most likely even means walking away (if you already havent) in the beginning. And that is probably the hardest part. But it is the most effective way over the long haul.
Lets look at human nature. What youll read next is sad but true. . .people get bored with something or someone who is there for them all the time, no matter what. Think about yourself. Are you attracted to someone who is always around, answering your every need and catering to your every whim? Pretty borning, right? Now think about how your wife or girlfriend sees you. How she sees you depends on how highly you value yourself. And if you dont value yourself enough right now, you need to change that. Learn to recognize what you deserve, not what youre used to. If you act like a loser, you will be treated like a loser. If you think of yourself as the victim of the situation, then you are the victim of the situation. Now ask yourself, why should anyone else, including your girlfriend or wife, think highly of you if you dont think very highly of yourself? Realize that things dont happen by themselves. . .only you have the power to change things about yourself, how you see yourself and how others treat you.
If youre not already doing so, take care of yourself. Eat healthy foods and exercise. Go out with friends more often and try to have some fun.
When youre not always hanging around just waiting for your wife or girlfriend to change her mind, she will actually have the chance to miss you . . . maybe not easy, but very effective.
The above actions will take you out of the "black hole" of your situation so that you can view it from a more objective angle while at the same time giving your girlfriend or wife the space that she needs and showing her that you are not going to wait around forever. Put these "how to make her fall in love with me" methods to work and enjoy the results.
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